Right now, we are in the middle of Route 46 and I am reflecting on the events from Friday.

After 22 years of service in the US Navy, one of my best friends retired. Len and I have been friends since high school...one of my best buddies who I called throughout college heart-breaks and other hard times. I am surprised he doesn't have permanent dents on the side of his head from falling asleep during some of those phone calls. His beautiful wife, Marsha, and I have been friends since SECOND GRADE!!!! As time goes on, I have come to realize that Marsh and I have always been sisters at heart. It has been very heart-warming to see our families grow and the next generation become good friends.

The Friday ceremonies were held at the Third Fleet Naval headquarters at Point Loma, in San Diego. Upon on our arrival, we were directed to a lookout overlooking the Pacific Ocean. It turned out to be a beautiful day, our friend Brian even got a little sunburnt.

Surrounded by the flags of each of the states, Commander Santiago entered the ceremonies with Rear Admiral John Hines. During the emotional program, Len was awarded with a medal, messages from President Obama, Governor Lingle of Hawaii and the Governator. Marsha and the kids also received messages of appreciation from the Navy. The Navy also presented certificates to Marsha's mother and some of Len's aunts and uncles...they were a huge support to Marsha and the family whenever Len was deployed because both of Len's parents have passed.


Rear Admiral Hines spoke of Len's leadership, dedication to the Navy and the people with whom he was responsible for, the sacrifices of not only Len, but that the whole family has made during the times that he was deployed or had to be at work early/late. But, to anyone who knows Len, this is not a surprise...as PJ said in a speech later that evening, his father loves the Navy...most people talk "story", Len talks "NAVY". During a few recent crises, (the Carnival ship that was stuck without engine power and others), I remember watching the news and thinking, Len will take care of it....and sure enough he was instrumental getting that spam to the ship. BTW: the Navy did not order the food for the ships...
Now that Len is gone, I don't know if I feel as "safe". There is something comforting knowing that he was there....
More to come....
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